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		<title>Comment on Players Beware! by Ray Colon</title>
		<link>http://raycolon.com/blog/2010/07/24/players-beware/comment-page-1/#comment-60619</link>
		<dc:creator>Ray Colon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Jul 2010 21:48:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tristan,

Yes, it would be great to implement SurprisedMom&#039;s suggestion, if only once. The articles that I have read on this case also pointed out that the man has already spent two years under house arrest while awaiting this trial.  It&#039;s truly unbelievable!  What I haven&#039;t learned is if she will move forward to civil court, now that the criminal allegation has been adjudicated.  This could become a more farcical story than it already is.

Frivolous lawsuits wouldn&#039;t bother me as much as they do except that those who bring them sometimes win. Court time wasted to have them dismissed is a problem, but as long as there&#039;s a chance of success, those types of suits will just keep on coming.  Oy!  Ray</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tristan,</p>
<p>Yes, it would be great to implement SurprisedMom&#8217;s suggestion, if only once. The articles that I have read on this case also pointed out that the man has already spent two years under house arrest while awaiting this trial.  It&#8217;s truly unbelievable!  What I haven&#8217;t learned is if she will move forward to civil court, now that the criminal allegation has been adjudicated.  This could become a more farcical story than it already is.</p>
<p>Frivolous lawsuits wouldn&#8217;t bother me as much as they do except that those who bring them sometimes win. Court time wasted to have them dismissed is a problem, but as long as there&#8217;s a chance of success, those types of suits will just keep on coming.  Oy!  Ray</p>
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		<title>Comment on Players Beware! by Tristan</title>
		<link>http://raycolon.com/blog/2010/07/24/players-beware/comment-page-1/#comment-60612</link>
		<dc:creator>Tristan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Jul 2010 21:19:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like SurprisedMom&#039;s suggestion of charging the woman with being irresponsible and stupid.  Because she is both.  The woman in the story, not SurprisedMom!  It&#039;s unfortunate that people get away with this type of behavior.  It happens here in America too.  Lawsuit happy people who sue the person they were trying to rob because the thief fell and broke his leg.  Or was that just an Al Yankovic song?  I did read a story about a woman whose husband was abusive.  She wanted to do something about it but what could she do when he was a cop with cop friends who sided with him?  I think he ended up killing her.  Nice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like SurprisedMom&#8217;s suggestion of charging the woman with being irresponsible and stupid.  Because she is both.  The woman in the story, not SurprisedMom!  It&#8217;s unfortunate that people get away with this type of behavior.  It happens here in America too.  Lawsuit happy people who sue the person they were trying to rob because the thief fell and broke his leg.  Or was that just an Al Yankovic song?  I did read a story about a woman whose husband was abusive.  She wanted to do something about it but what could she do when he was a cop with cop friends who sided with him?  I think he ended up killing her.  Nice.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Players Beware! by Ray Colon</title>
		<link>http://raycolon.com/blog/2010/07/24/players-beware/comment-page-1/#comment-60569</link>
		<dc:creator>Ray Colon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Jul 2010 11:44:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi SurprisedMom, While It&#039;s common for me to be perplexed by the outcome of some trials, this one was a real logic buster, for many of the reasons that you&#039;ve listed.  With the reported increases in cases of real date rape, this verdict diminishes the accusations of actual victims.  Many young men do not take the crime of date rape seriously already, and this decision does not help raise awareness at all.

The woman in the video was advocating her view and promoting her agenda, so I don&#039;t fault her for that, but there was something about the unwavering certitude with which she stated her case that sent a shiver up my spine.  She seemed to recognize no gray area, no mitigating circumstances, and no personal responsibility on the part of the &quot;victim&quot;.  Most of all, she exhibited a total lack of common sense and a dizzying naivete of the ways of the world.

Making &quot;stupid&quot; a chargeable offense doesn&#039;t seem like much of a stretch anymore, in light of the outcome of this case.  Ray</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi SurprisedMom, While It&#8217;s common for me to be perplexed by the outcome of some trials, this one was a real logic buster, for many of the reasons that you&#8217;ve listed.  With the reported increases in cases of real date rape, this verdict diminishes the accusations of actual victims.  Many young men do not take the crime of date rape seriously already, and this decision does not help raise awareness at all.</p>
<p>The woman in the video was advocating her view and promoting her agenda, so I don&#8217;t fault her for that, but there was something about the unwavering certitude with which she stated her case that sent a shiver up my spine.  She seemed to recognize no gray area, no mitigating circumstances, and no personal responsibility on the part of the &#8220;victim&#8221;.  Most of all, she exhibited a total lack of common sense and a dizzying naivete of the ways of the world.</p>
<p>Making &#8220;stupid&#8221; a chargeable offense doesn&#8217;t seem like much of a stretch anymore, in light of the outcome of this case.  Ray</p>
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		<title>Comment on Players Beware! by SurprisedMom</title>
		<link>http://raycolon.com/blog/2010/07/24/players-beware/comment-page-1/#comment-60553</link>
		<dc:creator>SurprisedMom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Jul 2010 01:26:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So, according to the verdict, lying is a crime. Not only that, lying about your marital status and then taking a willing woman to bed, is rape. No it&#039;s not. The verdict is way off base. It also takes away from the real victims of rape. Yes, the woman was very angry she was lied to. I get that. But, who told her she had to go to bed with this man in the first place? Did she know him? Did she even try to get to know him before bedding him? It doesn&#039;t appear so. For this complaint to have been tried is a travesty of justice. It angers me. Now I wish they would try and convict the woman for being stupid and irresponsible. I mean if lying is a crime, so then stupidity must follow. 

What do I think of this verdict and all it&#039;s consequences? I think it&#039;s appalling.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, according to the verdict, lying is a crime. Not only that, lying about your marital status and then taking a willing woman to bed, is rape. No it&#8217;s not. The verdict is way off base. It also takes away from the real victims of rape. Yes, the woman was very angry she was lied to. I get that. But, who told her she had to go to bed with this man in the first place? Did she know him? Did she even try to get to know him before bedding him? It doesn&#8217;t appear so. For this complaint to have been tried is a travesty of justice. It angers me. Now I wish they would try and convict the woman for being stupid and irresponsible. I mean if lying is a crime, so then stupidity must follow. </p>
<p>What do I think of this verdict and all it&#8217;s consequences? I think it&#8217;s appalling.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Win By Behaving Badly by Alicia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alicia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 02:47:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Exactly.

She really is a political force to be reckoned with, and those who oppose her policies and mindset need to be prepared to deliver more concrete objections than the jokes and cheap shots flooding the Twitterverse.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Exactly.</p>
<p>She really is a political force to be reckoned with, and those who oppose her policies and mindset need to be prepared to deliver more concrete objections than the jokes and cheap shots flooding the Twitterverse.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Win By Behaving Badly by Ray Colon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ray Colon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 02:30:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ha Alicia, yes, your first line sums up the kinds of barbs that I&#039;ve seen a lot of over the last couple of days.

Absolutely, &quot;criticism of her should have substance&quot;, because if this was the worst thing that Palin has done, I&#039;d have a much better opinion of her.  Ray</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ha Alicia, yes, your first line sums up the kinds of barbs that I&#8217;ve seen a lot of over the last couple of days.</p>
<p>Absolutely, &#8220;criticism of her should have substance&#8221;, because if this was the worst thing that Palin has done, I&#8217;d have a much better opinion of her.  Ray</p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Win By Behaving Badly by Alicia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alicia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 02:05:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Irregardless of her attempts to refudiate her misundestimations, Sarah Palin has no substance. Criticism of her should.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Irregardless of her attempts to refudiate her misundestimations, Sarah Palin has no substance. Criticism of her should.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Half Dozen Victories by Ray Colon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ray Colon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jul 2010 22:55:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Terry,

I&#039;m so sorry to hear about your mother.  I can&#039;t imagine how awful that must have been for you and your family.  Such a tragedy.

Your story should give those that read it pause.  We shouldn&#039;t fritter away the time that we have with our loved ones, since we never now what tomorrow will bring.

I thank you for your kind words, and it&#039;s really nice to see you here.

Ray</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Terry,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m so sorry to hear about your mother.  I can&#8217;t imagine how awful that must have been for you and your family.  Such a tragedy.</p>
<p>Your story should give those that read it pause.  We shouldn&#8217;t fritter away the time that we have with our loved ones, since we never now what tomorrow will bring.</p>
<p>I thank you for your kind words, and it&#8217;s really nice to see you here.</p>
<p>Ray</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Half Dozen Victories by DiCom</title>
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		<dc:creator>DiCom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jul 2010 22:34:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Ray!

Your love and respect for your mother is unmistakably clear.  In honoring her you have honored yourself as a man of substance.  

My dear mother was murdered when I was 11. Because of this I have never been able to tolerate boys - they are never men even if they are 40! - who disrespected their mothers.  A boy can become a man without a daddy, but not without a mother!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Ray!</p>
<p>Your love and respect for your mother is unmistakably clear.  In honoring her you have honored yourself as a man of substance.  </p>
<p>My dear mother was murdered when I was 11. Because of this I have never been able to tolerate boys &#8211; they are never men even if they are 40! &#8211; who disrespected their mothers.  A boy can become a man without a daddy, but not without a mother!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Your Call Is Important To Me by Ray Colon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ray Colon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2010 15:04:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Tristan,

The situation was not so much dramatic as it was frustrating and scary.  They were on their way to convincing me that I did have a big leak somewhere, so I was almost expecting to see a sinkhole appear at any minute.  :)  Well, not really, but I was worried about the next bill.

You seem to have ended up with a whopper of a deal on the carpet, so although it might not have felt like it at the time, the experience was probably worth it for you.  The carpet company tried to make things right, which, I suppose, is about the best we should expect.  To expect that companies or people are infallible would be unrealistic.  In my experiences, I&#039;ve found that I can overlook just about any mistake, as long as there&#039;s an earnest effort to correct it.  I think that that&#039;s fair.

Your alarm post is a prime example.  No work done, followed by a bill.  Crazy.  I&#039;m glad that you pushed back and were able to get that erroneous charged removed.

I didn&#039;t really expect anything to come of my video.  Vlogging and blogging are just creative outlets for expressing my views.  They are also just hobbies -- especially the video-making.  They&#039;re fun!

I don&#039;t know if I&#039;m really nicer than you, but I do tend to simmer on the inside rather than on the outside.  I&#039;ve seen lots of examples of people who lose it at the slightest provocation, and that strategy rarely works out well.  So I&#039;m all for taking a deep breath and giving it another try.  :)  Ray</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Tristan,</p>
<p>The situation was not so much dramatic as it was frustrating and scary.  They were on their way to convincing me that I did have a big leak somewhere, so I was almost expecting to see a sinkhole appear at any minute.  <img src='http://raycolon.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Well, not really, but I was worried about the next bill.</p>
<p>You seem to have ended up with a whopper of a deal on the carpet, so although it might not have felt like it at the time, the experience was probably worth it for you.  The carpet company tried to make things right, which, I suppose, is about the best we should expect.  To expect that companies or people are infallible would be unrealistic.  In my experiences, I&#8217;ve found that I can overlook just about any mistake, as long as there&#8217;s an earnest effort to correct it.  I think that that&#8217;s fair.</p>
<p>Your alarm post is a prime example.  No work done, followed by a bill.  Crazy.  I&#8217;m glad that you pushed back and were able to get that erroneous charged removed.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t really expect anything to come of my video.  Vlogging and blogging are just creative outlets for expressing my views.  They are also just hobbies &#8212; especially the video-making.  They&#8217;re fun!</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;m really nicer than you, but I do tend to simmer on the inside rather than on the outside.  I&#8217;ve seen lots of examples of people who lose it at the slightest provocation, and that strategy rarely works out well.  So I&#8217;m all for taking a deep breath and giving it another try.  <img src='http://raycolon.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Ray</p>
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